We’ve
been bombarded by so many messages about how reading expands the mind, excites the imagination and enhances the vocabulary
(all of which are true) that many parents have forgotten that the benefit of reading for our children
very much depends on what they’re reading. And, many children
spend hours reading what often turns out to be pure raunch.
In many cases the very liberal American Library Association exerts great influence over
what reading materials teachers assign their students. But that material may be highly inappropriate for your child. Don’t
let the following scenario unfold in your home:
Mrs. Jones hands out a book report assignment that includes several books for her class to choose from.
Mom dutifully drives Suzi to the local library and browses while Suzi selects her book. Within half an hour, book in hand,
everyone is feeling rather satisfied that they have been so responsible in starting on the project early. Mom and Suzi arrive
home, and while mom begins making dinner, the conscientious and responsible Suzi heads to her room and begins to consume
what turns out to be highly sexualized, vulgar garbage, filled with four-letter words and enough verbal
porn to embarrass even an ole’ salt.
Mom doesn’t have a clue that her daughter’s innocence has just been molested in the privacy
of her own bedroom. She won’t ever know because Suzi, a bit stymied by the fact that Mom took her to get a book that
her teacher assigned, will be too embarrassed and confused to ever tell. Yet, she’s just had sexuality, relationships
and acceptable behavior defined for her by some perverted author most folks have never heard of. And the kid was simply trying
to get her homework done.
The lesson here is simple. Moms and Dads, don’t just naively drive your kids to the library --
you must be careful to help them choose books that reflect your values.
The ALA is quick to call anyone who questions its decisions a “censor.” But remember, part
of our responsibility and privilege as parents is to be the ones who determine what is and is not appropriate for our own
children.